Elks Feeding Hungary Little Tummies

Posted in Charity, Florida, Fund Raiser, Sande Caplin with tags , , on December 31, 2011 by sandecaplin
“Thank You”  From Lauren Mitchell & The Lauren Mitchell Band.
I just wanted to take a moment to thank all of our fans who came out to Ace’s last week. We raised $500.00 for the E.F.E.L.T. charity. That’s enough to feed 2 children every weekend for the entire school year!
Giving back to the community is something that is important to me and I am so grateful that our fans feel the same way. It’s good to know that the faces smiling back at us from the crowd have hearts too! Our fans are very important to us. Like I’ve said before . . . What we do wouldn’t be half as rewarding for us if we didn’t have all of YOU listening!
So . . . that being said . . . I thought I’d use my public forum to share this brief video about E.F.E.L.T. and my Dad. One of our local news stations, Fox 13, has named him “Hometown Hero” for his work. Please watch and share with anyone you know who is more fortunate than these children. We all need to do what we can to help this group reach their goal of feeding ALL the homeless elementary school children in Manatee County!
http://www.myfoxtampabay.com//dpp/good_day/local-group-fights-hunger-problem-123011
The LMB wishes all of you a safe and happy New Year. May it be filled with blessings and love.

Long Suffering New York Jets Fan!

Posted in New York Jets, Sports with tags , on November 28, 2011 by sandecaplin

If you are a long suffering New York Jets fan like I am (since 1964), here is a great “weekly” blog to read regarding a game recap.  My dad bought “season tickets” and we went to the opening game on a Saturday night before Joe Namath was on the team!  My son, Bryan writes a great column.

Here is the link:  http://sec133.wordpress.com/author/bcapbk/

New York Jets

New York Jets

 

Pray For Dan Toler

Posted in Fund Raiser, Sarasota with tags , , , , , , , on November 20, 2011 by sandecaplin

This entry was written by “Lauren Mitchell.”   Lauren is the lead singer with “The Lauren Mitchell Band,” based in Sarasota, Florida

As most of you know, I consider myself a very lucky girl. I could list all of the reasons why I feel that way, but it would probably be more than you’d want to read so I’ll just mention one:

I am lucky because I get to call Dan Toler my friend. I was fortunate enough to meet Danny about two years ago, through Mike Hensley, mine and Danny’s keyboard player, when we got together and jammed for an hour or so on some music Mike & I had been writing. Dan’s playing immediately inspired us both and took the song to another level. Since then, Dan and I have become great friends. I have had the opportunity to spend time with him one-on-one over lunch, joking and laughing so hard we’ve both ended up crying. I’ve been invited to play and record music with Dan in his home several times, and always leave feeling uplifted and like I’ve just come from a lesson at a “school of real life rock”. I have even been blessed to share the stage with him on a few occasions.

One of these occasions was this past weekend at a benefit in Dan’s honor held here in Sarasota. The experience was one I will never forget, and from the response I’ve received around town and via our Facebook band page, I don’t think that anyone else who was in attendance will either. Danny’s playing was as good as I’ve ever heard. Outstanding. Transcendent. There truly aren’t words to describe it. All I know is that when I sang with him, the crowd and the lights disappeared and he was the only other person in the space with me.

Part of the reason this moment was so special is because Dan was diagnosed with ALS (Lou Gehrig’s Disease) this past Summer. The concert was to help raise money for Danny’s medical and ALS related expenses. There were thousands of people who came out to support Dan and listen to the music, and several others who came to play. The performance roster read like a Who’s Who of Blues and Southern Rock, including names like Mike Kach, Dickey Betts and Great Southern, Tony Tyler, Sean Chambers, T.C. Carr, Bonnie Bramlett, The Outlaws, Artimus Pyle Band (Lynyrd Skynyrd), and Warren Haynes. It was a wonderful weekend full of joy and music. Not much could have made it better. Pastor John Grady (from the church Dan, Mike and I attend) even showed up to say a special prayer before the Dan Toler band played. Moving to say the least.

I guess what I’m getting at is this . . . Dan Toler is an amazing man. Period. Not to mention a world class guitarist. Please take a moment to check out the link below and donate if you can. And pray.

Please pray for my friend and his family. He needs that more than anything else.

Dan Toler Playing At His Benefit Concert

Lauren and Dan at Benefit Concert

www.helpdantoler.com

Visit us on the web!
www.laurenmitchellband.com

Westbury 1968 Class Reunion

Posted in Sande Caplin, Westbury 1968 Reunion, Westbury New York on October 28, 2011 by sandecaplin

Reunion 2012,  By Keith Bettinger

            I’m going to the Westbury High School Class of 1968 reunion in April 2012.  I will probably be standing there, bewildered, wondering who all the old people are, and figuring they must have been my teachers.

While I’m standing there you might not recognize me.  You see, I’ve grown taller since leaving high school.  I have now grown past my hair.  It no longer sticks out the top of my head.  However, if I could comb my eyebrows back, or part the hair in my ears, I would once again have a nice full head of hair.

I seem to have grown sideways as well.  I’m not fat.  I’m just short for my weight.  I stand 5’ 8”, but according to those charts in the doctor’s office, I should be 7’ 9” tall.

If you talk to me at the reunion and I don’t answer don’t assume I’m ignoring you.  You see, I have a nice pair of discreet hearing aids.   I no longer respond to everything my wife says with non-acceptable answers such as “What?” and “Huh?”  The trick is I have to remember where I left them and then I have to remember to put them in my ears.  The problem is if I’m in a large room with lots of old people who are speaking loud, the noise can overwhelm the hearing aids.  Then again, if you are annoying me, I might just ignore you and blame it on my hearing aids.

There probably won’t be any Camaros, Challengers, Roadrunners or Firebirds in the restaurant parking lot when I arrive.  But, there will probably be the types of cars driven by old people, Cadillacs, Lincolns,  Lexuses, (or is that supposed to be Lexi?) some Chevrolets and Fords.  In my case it will be whatever the rental agency decides to supply me with.

As I was about to enter the working world, two points I decided on was I would not work holidays or wear a tie.  I became a cop.  Those two points went right out the window for twenty five years.  When I talk to my mother via telephone, I constantly hear how neat I used to dress and what great care I took of my dress up clothes.  I won’t be wearing my dress up clothes to the reunion.  I’m retired.  I don’t own dress up clothes. When I need a suit or a sport jacket I go and buy one.  If I can’t go someplace in a pair of Dockers and a Hawaiian shirt, I’m not going.  Tommy Bahama reigns!

At our age comfort is a must, so break out your orthopedic dancing shoes, bring extra batteries for your hearing aids, a snapshot of the person you came with so you remember who is taking you home that night.  But most importantly bring your fond memories and your desire to renew old friendships from so many years past.

SALUTATORIAN ADDRESS * Susan Joan Fishbein * Westbury High School Class of 1968

Posted in Sande Caplin, Westbury 1968 Reunion, Westbury New York on October 20, 2011 by sandecaplin

Westbury High School

Forty-seventh Annual Graduation Exercises

Thursday, June 20, 1968

6:00 p.m.

Thomas J. Fitzgerald Athletic Field

 

            Dr. Rice, Mr. Kickham, esteemed members of the clergy, distinguished members of the board, most respected members of the faculty, honored parents and friends of the Class of 1968, and fellow students.  I stand before you today with a sense of accomplishment and pride upon having reached this point in my life.  I am sure that this class agrees that the four years we spent in high school were gratifying, instructive, and memorable.  These years have added immeasurably to the maturation process we all must experience.  I know we feel indebted to our hard-working and dedicated faculty members.  Their guidance and instruction, as well as their friendship, are some of the intangibles that have become a part of us and will not readily be forgotten.

And yet, at this culminating point, as we close this chapter in our lives and pause to reflect, it is not enough to feel the relief and joy of a job well done.  It is not enough to sit back in our seats as we are doing today and grin and say, “Gee, we finally made it.”  This is only the joy this moment brings.  But the sense of responsibility to ourselves and to our nation is the overwhelming feeling that should strike us tomorrow when this ceremony is over.  Perhaps you have felt it already.  For in this time of upheaval and rapid change, the youth of America, and the youth of Westbury as well, are playing more of a vital role in our society than ever before.  Half of the population of the United States is under the age of twenty-five.  This is a grim and startling fact to the members of the older generation.  They feel today that the youth of America have gained too much power – that they are running the country and effecting a grand revolution in society.  Yes, they are, or rather I should say, yes, we are.  But with this strength afforded us, because we are half the population of our country, comes the duty to place controls on this power and to use it wisely.  There is an old quotation that says: “Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely.”  Napoleon and Hitler were notorious men of history who attained a high status because they had power.  They, however, used this power ruthlessly, and manifested a crazed sense of egotism and a belief in a superman of the world.  They effected vast ruin and destruction, and innumerable deaths.  But how many deaths will it take ‘til we know that too many people have died?

The national scene, as well as the world scene, has affected some of us personally.  While in our career in high school, some of us have taken political sides, dealt with racial questions, and fought a war against a war in Vietnam.  Two great leaders, Dr. Martin Luther King, untiringly working for the cause of civil rights, and Senator Robert F. Kennedy, vigorously campaigning for a better America, have been felled in our senior year alone, and we have taken on personal grief.  Yet, while this pattern of violence and upheaval is worldwide, it has zeroed in on Westbury this year.  A cross-section of all the bacteria in the world was placed under the microscope and we focused on Westbury.  The students and the administration examined the infection and to the best of their ability tried to find the antidote.  This year, Westbury became a microcosm-macrocosm.  Our school displayed concern with control, and thereby effected change.  And no one person took it upon himself to conquer the situation.  We saw and were involved in a group effort to cure any ills we might have encountered.  We must commend ourselves on this accomplishment.

Thus, The Class of 1968 has tasted one of the problems that plagues our nation, and we will go on to taste the rest.  But how can one savor this bitterness.  The flavor is not a pleasant one.  It cannot be said, however, that the United States is one bad meal, or the world, for that matter.  We must confine our criticism.  In a beautifully prepared barbecue, if only the corn is burnt, we cannot say that the steak and salad are poor, as well.  It must be realized, too, that the goal of the American people is not only to save a nation, but to save humanity.

It goes without saying that the world today is more complex than ever before.  This complexity seems almost to be multiplying at a geometric rate.  Advanced technology and increased and thriving materialism may all be well and good, and we realize the potential of the human being to create and improve.  Americans are saving more lives, growing richer, and making life easier.  But are we happier – are we satisfied with material gain?: ah! there’s the rub.  For in that gain what dreams may we think of and hope for next.

So, in seeming improvement, are we moving towards self-destruction? Are we moving in the right direction? Do we in the United States know when and where to stop? Of course, science and technology cannot regress.  But here in this country we have the symptoms of a too complex world.  We crave for peace, so we riot.  We yearn for education, so we sit in.  We strive for democracy, so we discriminate.  Preaching love and peace and democracy is not the cure, for many do not listen and do not believe.  Some are calling now for a return to nature, but the 21st century cannot take a permanent respite at Walden Pond.  Nor can one ignore the world and return to the cave to solve its ills.  What this country, and what this world needs, is a return, not to nature, but to humanity, and therefore communication among men.  This can only be done in a group effort through education in order to further understanding between peoples, races, and nations.  Yes, humanity has a toothache and has not learned her lesson, as most of this class saw in Eugene Ionesco’s one-act play.

Moreover, the answer is not to remove guns, but to cure the disease which sets man against man, and nation against nation.  This must be the unified effort of our country, and it lies in making new laws and enforcing them, and having people fully understand, accept, and abide by them.  We must seek out superior leadership to handle the times, for “they are a’changing.”  Maybe “a hard rain’s a gonna fall,” but maybe this rain will dissolve evil and expiate our sins.  We must work for and create a world and climate where our children may never know the violence and terror of today.  It is to this goal that the Class of 1968 must now commit themselves, and it is with this in mind that I come before you today, not only to open this ceremony, but to open your eyes to the paramount task that lies ahead of us.  We must catch the answer that “is blowing in the wind.”  I wish us all success!

Former New Cassel Man Comes Full Circle

Posted in Friends, Sande Caplin, Westbury 1968 Reunion, Westbury New York on October 13, 2011 by sandecaplin

Former New Cassel Man Comes Full Circle

Bruce Codrington’s Book Reflects on His Past

By Alan M. Fishman

More than 30 years after leaving his hometown of New Cassel, Bruce Codrington reflects on his past; through the words and thoughts in his book, Full Circle: From Addiction to Affection. A current resident of Georgia, Codrington’s book, published last October, details his successful journey overcoming incarcerations, depression and a heroin addiction.

“The book is about how my dreams, hopes and values changed so radically and quickly without even realizing it when it came to addiction … It’s about victory not only over drug addiction, but victory over the reasons that led to the addiction which made it possible to never relapse in 34 years,” Codrington told
The Westbury Times, adding that one of the reasons why he has remained drug free, which is discussed in his book, is his spirituality.
“I wanted to reveal just how good God’s mercy and grace is when we feel so undeserving of it. Although I knew of God, I was not living like a Godly person at the time of my addiction … I try to live by faith that God was there for me then and see no reason why this will not be true in the future,” Codrington said. “I have always tried to show love to others, yet felt unloved myself. When I got baptized in ’97, I was able to learn to love myself, thus I began to feel the love from so many others in return.”
Codrington said another significant reason why he turned his life around, was Janice Bernier – the “woman that made it all possible.” Codrington met Janice in 1971 just two weeks after he ran away from his last drug treatment. She was only 16 at the time and became his wife a year later. Today, the couple remains happily married.
“In Janice, I found someone that believed more in me than I did in myself. I knew I may not have stayed drug free if I had met a woman that was just as weak as I was at the time. Janice was only 16, yet she had the maturity of a person twice her age,” Codrington said, adding that Janice’s visionary ability and faith in God was just what he needed at the time of his recovery.
Remembering his past while writing, Codrington said he cried a lot. “I actually felt the pain that I only had imagined putting my parents, family, victims and myself through,” he said. “As I wrote, I had to remind myself that the person doing all those bad things at the time was actually me and at times it was very difficult. It was like I was writing about someone else.”
Codrington began writing a journal in 1993 while he was in counseling and said his therapist was astonished that he had overcome a heroin addiction without going through a 12-step program. He realized then that while his story wasn’t necessarily unique, it could be inspirational to others.
“I was encouraged by my wife and several close friends that I should share my story about recovery from a simple lay person’s point of view. I used to wonder why all the publicity about recovery and addiction went to the celebrities, when there are thousands of everyday people like myself that have a testimony to share,” Codrington said, adding that he believes his story relates to everyday people.
Growing up in New Cassel from 1959-1971, Codrington said he rode 10-speed bikes, cut grass for money, collected soda bottles for $.02 returns, played stickball in the streets and frolicked at New Cassel Park. His most vivid memory of life in New Cassel, however, was in April 1968, right after Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated. “We had a mini-riot on Prospect Avenue and the riot squad on horses were standing guard over the community. Some rioters burned down a building on Urban and Prospect anyway. That was very traumatizing, even at 18 years old.”
Currently, Codrington works for American Express as a travel counselor and plans to write a second book with his wife about relationships from an African American perspective. He and Janice currently lead a marriage ministry and have two sons.
After writing the book and reflecting on his life’s journey, Codrington said “There are times, even as I speak now, that I get down about how and why I once lived as a junkie and a thief. As quickly as I have a pity party is how quickly I say to myself how blessed I am today. If not for my past, I may have not taken life more seriously as an adult … I feel as though God gave me a second chance at life 34 years ago. My book makes me proud that I shared my soul without fear or retaliation from anyone.”
The book’s title, Full Circle: From Addiction to Affection, came from Janice and according to Codrington, it contains a message he hopes to communicate. “The most important message
I want to convey is for the youth of our society. I have a special place in my heart for them,” he said. “Those tender, formative teenage years are so precious and if one teen can learn that addiction during your school years can ruin your life for years to follow, then I feel that my book was worthy.”
Full Circle: From Addiction to Affection is published by iUniverse, Inc. and can be ordered online at www.amazon.com.

Breast Cancer Fund Raiser in Sarasota, Florida October 15, 2012

Posted in Breast Cancer Research, Family, Florida, Sande Caplin, Save the Ta-tas with tags , , , on October 3, 2011 by sandecaplin
I am proud to announce that I am helping to sponsor a Breast Cancer Fundraiser on October 15, 2011 at The Flying Dog Cafe.  I will be stopping by to see you over the next week asking for your support with the donation of a  gift or gift certificate.  All donations are tax deductible.  Tickets for the event are $5.00.  The tickets are selling out fast but I have put aside a block of tickets for my clients.
Great food and drinks, raffles, silent auction & lot’s of fun.  The hottest band in the Sarasota / Bradenton area will be playing.  If you have not heard the Lauren Mitchell Band,” ……… you are in for a real treat!
Thanks in advance, Sande
Fundraiser Ticket
                      Lauren Mitchell Logo
Breast Cancer Flyer

More About Westbury by Lewis Kostiner

Posted in Westbury 1968 Reunion, Westbury New York with tags , on September 22, 2011 by sandecaplin

My memory of Post Avenue and its surrounds was stirred and jolted by Keith Bettinger’s vivid recall and his beautifully written stroll down the avenue.  So after much thought I remembered that back in 1966 I took a job at the ski shop next to Maxie’s Deli. I would spend every Saturday on a bus with skiing novices on our way up to the Catskill ski resort in Hunter.  Growing up in Canada I had learned to ski at a very young age.   So I got the job.  After a while when the snow melted, usually by the beginning of March, I would be unemployed and that was not acceptable at our household at 756 Franklin Street.

 

My parents would often go to Manero’s Steakhouse at 352 Jericho Turnpike or The Kings Grant Inn for Saturday night out dinner.  I knew I was not going to dinner with them when my mother came home with a roast beef sandwich for me from Maxie’s. They would not like to take me to a place that had lobster on the menu (Kings Grant Inn) for the obvious reasons, it cost too much. However my great joy was the Sunday night run to Dominic’s Pizza Palace on Post Avenue. It was always full and my step dad Leon told me he liked that the place was always full of Jewish clientele to which he added, if you don’t see any Jews eating there then get the hell out (he felt all Jews had very refined palates).  Dominic was the owner, from Bari, and his wife and very old father were always there helping out.  He basically made pizza, with his own home made sauce and fresh ingredients; he yeasted and made his own dough and in addition cooked all the other basic Italian food, lasagna, ravioli, manicotti.  Dominic’s English was not too good. During one Sunday dinner he asked my mother, or she may have volunteered, if she knew someone who could help out on Friday night and Sunday at the register and wait tables a little.  Before I could say no, my mother, Selma, volunteered my services.  Such was the humble beginning of my servitude for Dominic Barasi at the pizzeria.

 

I made good money, almost $75 every weekend.  I ran around like a chicken with my head cut off and Dominic would let me eat whatever I wanted, except for steak or shrimp, especially shrimp, as he said they were too expensive.  He only had the big ones.  If I scored a goal in the soccer game I played in the Italian league on Sunday afternoon, before work, then I could have anything I wanted.  If I didn’t score a goal, Dominic would smack me on the head, call me a “stunate”, and order me onto pizza dough fabrication.  The worst part of making the dough was hauling the flour bags around and then placing the wooden trays with dough balls on them into the cooler while the dough rose.  He always had a large pot of “real” tomato sauce (made with real tomatoes) on the stove in the kitchen and his father, who spoke no English, ate a steak every Sunday drenched in olive oil.  Lots of other stuff went on in the kitchen.  For a few weeks there was the color television sale, with about 50 boxes of brand new color televisions, in the kitchen.  Diners would come for pizza and leave with a TV.  Dominic also had radios and razors, among other trinkets.  We never asked where they came from.  But a nod from a dinner guest would bring Dominic to their table so that he could escort them into the kitchen.  Cash only.  The goods left by way of the back door.

 

Keith reminded me of all the other places up and down the street and nearby.  I took them all for granted.  Now in hindsight I should have stopped into many of them, maybe I did but just do not remember.  In any case I loved Dominic and he was fond of me and good to me.  He came to my graduation and smiled a lot.  But the best part of all was when he taught me how to toss the pizza dough in the air and then catch it.  I became quite adept at it and couldn’t wait to do it again and again.  That is until I dropped the dough, and Dominic would use that dropped ball to make the next pizza, which was then my Sunday dinner.

 

Fondly…Lewis Kostiner…in Chicago

Puck416@gmail.com

312-802-0128

Lewis Kostiner

 

Jose’s Real Cuban Food On the Food Network!

Posted in Cooking, Florida, Friends, Recipes, Restaurants, Sarasota Restaurants with tags on September 20, 2011 by sandecaplin

Appearance of Jose’s Real Cuban Food on cable network is recipe to celebrate

By WADE TATANGELO
wtatangelo@bradenton.com

BRADENTON — Damon Fowler’s Sugar Shack Mondays at Aces Live in Bradenton has been a popular attraction for blues enthusiasts statewide since its inception at the start of the year.

This week’s edition proved extra special.

The international touring and Blind Pig recording artist from Bradenton Beach joined forces with one of his favorite restaurants.

It resulted in a packed-house viewing party featuring Jose’s Real Cuban Food’s appearance on the hit road show “Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives” on Food Network.

To accommodate the larger crowd, owner Jose Baserva and his famous food moved across the street to Aces Live.

After the Damon Fowler Group performed from 8 p.m. until just before 9 p.m., all eyes were on the numerous television screens that adorn the venue’s ancient wood walls.

Wild-haired host Guy Fieri dined on Baserva’s picadillo, paella and boliche, raving about each dish.

“This is absolutely surreal,” Baserva said, moments after the episode aired.

Throngs of Baserva’s family and longtime customers rushed to hug and congratulate the restaurant owner, who was seated next to his wife, Darlene.

Fowler’s power trio then returned to the stage to elate the audience with more original, rollicking blues and Americana songs goosed with a few choice covers.

“I’m a fan of Jose’s and it was great we were able to partner with him tonight,” Fowler said.

A second viewing party featuring Jose’s famed Cuban sandwiches will take place at Aces Live at noon today.

The episode airs again on Food Network at 9 p.m. Sept. 30.

“This is the second best day ever. The only one better is when I married my wife,” Baserva said.

Jose’s Website:  www.josesrealcubanfood.com

 

Joses Real Cuban Food

 

Read more: http://www.bradenton.com/2011/09/20/v-print/3508083/packed-house-eats-up-tv-spotlight.html#ixzz1YUtkDf3j

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hotel Bedbug Problem Spreads Across the US

Posted in Family, Pest Control with tags , on September 16, 2011 by sandecaplin

….From Wire Reports, Reprinted from the Bradenton Herald, Bradenton, FL

The next time you check into a hotel, you might want to keep any eye out for tiny, oval-shaped parasites.

Bedbug  infestations continue to grow and have now spread across the country, according to a new survey by the University of Kentucky and National Pest Management Association, a trade group for the pest control industry.

Media reports of hotel bedbug problems first surfaced on the East Coast several years ago, but such stories have since become common in other parts of the country.  Experts have offered a wide range of theories for the growing problem, including the pests’ increased resistance to pesticides and the growth in foreign travel.

“This pest is showing no signs of retreating,” said Missy Henriksen, a spokeswoman for the trade group.  That is particularly true with hotels.  This year, 80 percent if pest control companies surveyed said they treated hotels for bedbugs.  That’s up from 67 percent last year.

Reports of bedbug problems are also on the rise in college dorms, nursing homes, schools, day-care centers and in taxis, buses and trains.

******************************************************************************

A pest control company in Sarasota / Bradenton, Florida sells a product that is great for traveling!   The product called “Avenger” comes in a 3 oz plastic bottle. Made from natural extracts. Safe for indoor/outdoor use. Pleasant aroma. Naturally & Effectively Kills Bed Bugs without staining bedding or using harmful chemicals or ingredients. Made in U.S.A.

You can contact  ”Your Pestco” at www.yourpestco.com or call them at (866)433-7039

Avenger Bed Bug Spray 2 Pack

Avenger Bed Bug Spray 2 Pack

 

 

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 251 other followers